Look here for New Jersey links and sites from different schools this year. Here are some older links and information about Nontraditional Student support. There may still be some clues here to help you find help and support at your school. Please pardon any links that no longer work. They will soon be deleted or fixed this year (2015).
University College Community has a great website with stories
by nontraditional students on it.
The students on this page explain that Rutgers has a great
nontraditional student focus, with plenty of help and understanding
I like it that they have a Nontraditional
student orientation every Spring.They also feature a downloadable
newsletter in pdf format.
This sounds like a great school for nontraditional students.
I have listed this site on the articles
page here, too.
This school is definitely worth checking out.